Kiwis losing millions to online scams

• Published date: 10 March 2022
• Publication title: Taupo Weekender

This figure merely grazes the surface of online dating scams statistics — many people don’t file a complaint as they feel embarrassed or silly about getting “taken in”

Romance scams impact not just Kiwis residing in big cities, but also those inhabiting smaller towns. Kiwis living in the provinces may harbour a false sense of security when it comes to meeting people online. However, the fact is when you go online, you are no longer “local”. Cyber criminals do not discriminate between city dwellers or town inhabitants.

They create fake online profiles to hunt for the vulnerable. In a small town, it could arguably be easier for a cybercriminal to find out information about you and cater to your interests when interacting online. Have you ever posted personal information on your “Neighbourly” online group, the church bulletin, or local sports club notice board? This information may be used by cybercriminals to appeal to your interests to create a sense of closeness.

In light of the worrying rise in the number of Kiwis getting romance scammed, Norton has rounded up romance scammer avoidance pointers to ensure your love at first swipe or click is legit.

1. Be aware of the warning signs

Simply knowing how a romance scammer operates can help you identify and avoid one. Remember some of the red flags and lies romance scammers tell:

■ They’re far, far away.

■ Their profile seems too good to be true.

■ The relationship moves fast.

■ They break promises to visit.

■ They claim they need money.

■They ask for specific payment methods.

2. Evaluate your online presence

A few basic cybersecurity best practices can help protect you against internet scams. Consider that the more you share, the more scammers know about you — and know how to lure you.

For this reason, consider keeping your online dating profiles anonymous by using different usernames on sites or even different emails to protect your privacy. Also, be careful what you make public on social media.

3. Approach online relationships slowly

The internet can be an incredible place for community, developing friendships, and sometimes even relationships. But it’s always important to take these relationships slowly, vet your new companions thoroughly, and be wary if answers don’t add up.

4. Set up a phone or video chat early

Seeing someone’s face can be a sure-fire way to determine whether they’re real or fake. For this reason, set up a phone or video chat early on in your...